Exporting manufactured interconnect geometry including DFM effects

I have a GDS file (and the corresponding ICT technology file). I want to decode and process that GDS to export a list of all the actual metal/dielectric interconnect shapes that actually get manufactured. I don't mean the simple drawn boxes that are specified in the GDS layers, but the 3D shapes after the process effects are computed, which may thicken wires based on density and such.

What workflow and tools can do that?

I'm mostly looking for the interconnect wires, poly gates,  and vias, but exporting device details would also be great.

I'm not even an EDA designer.. I'm actually a physicist and I'm hoping to use my own tools to analyze computer chip electrostatics using my own algorithms and code. To do that I need the 3D shapes that a design actually produces.

I assume the start of any processing would be to load the GDS into Calibre, and the technology files can give me details about the layer thicknesses and positions for both metal and dielectrics. But the more I learn, the more I realize that these shapes aren't what get manufactured.. there's an entire (large!) set of DFM operations that MODIFY the GDS structures using complex rules to include the effects of CMP, width adjustments from litho, automatic (implicit) metal fills, and implicit added air gaps. I can see a lot of these rules in the ICT file documentation, but those aren't enough for me to actually compute all those (dozens!) of complex effects and adjustments myself.

From reading, it seems like the fab DRC rulesets may include (custom) code to compute these perturbations (resizing wires, shifting boxes up and down for CMP, adding metal fills, etc). What tools do I need to take my GDS and ICT file and get these updated geometries? As a giant ASCII list of 3D metal boxes and dielectric boxes is fine.. I can deal with formats, but I don't know the WORKFLOW that can produce these shapes.

Is there some core functionality in Calibre (or another Cadence tool) which loads the GDS and somehow queries the databases to spit out the modified chip geometry? (Maybe after giving them fab rulesets too?? I don't know.)

Googling didn't help too much, but I got the hint about rulesets from some online discussion, so I am hoping someone can teach me some of these basics. I'm hoping the answer is something like "Calibre will do it all for you, just load in the data, run the fab ruleset, then use THIS export commands for the updated geometry."

Thanks much for any help!